Rekindle the Romance in your Relationship!

Ignite the Spark with the
31-Day Romance Challenge!

Are you missing the PASSION and INTIMACY your relationship used to have? Want to get them back? 

It’s true, the pheromones might have subsided, but you can tickle that love-scent back into action and get those passion fires sparking again!

Yes! You really can do it!

It doesn’t take some odd cologne or a new sex toy – though you might want those later… BUT before you bring those into your bedroom, FIRST bring back the romance and the feelings that go with it.

How? With the 31-Day Romance Challenge!

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I designed the 31-Day Romance Month Challenge especially for August’s Romance Awareness Month to help YOU to get a little sparkle and a lot of fire back into YOUR relationship, quickly and easily! It’s full of fast & thoughtful gestures of love and simple activities – one small step each day – that you can do for, or with, your sweetie!

The romance is in remembering the little things you said, thought, and felt when you first started dating that helped you fall in love in the first place. The “challenge” is dedicating 15-20 minutes each day to focus on your relationship. 

You can download it HERE.

Do the Romance Challenges & Get Entered into a Prize Drawing!

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Because I know you want that “in love” feeling again but also know how hard it is to fit even small efforts into your already busy schedule, I’m sweetening the deal with a little motivation!

During August, each time you post something about your romance challenge efforts on social media (Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest) and tag my account (so I can give you credit!) you’ll be entered into a drawing for The Fabulous Five-Year Marriage® Gift Pack: a personally autographed copy of The Five-Year Marriage® (so you can keep the good feelings going), a beautiful journal (to keep track of your romance), a pocket notebook (for those little love-reminders), a pen to record them with, and a $30 gift card to Panera (where you and your sweetie can go for some quiet talk). It’s everything you need to get busy leveling up your relationship romance!

A lot of couples struggled over the last year+ in lockdown together. Even the most healthy relationships felt a strain at times. Now that the world has begun to open up and started returning to ‘normal’, we have a great opportunity to be intentional about what our ‘normal’ looks like. One of the things couples ask me about is how to spark up a little more romance in their relationships. Right now is the perfect time to make a conscious decision to make space for romance – and it’s easier than you think with the 31-Day Romance Challenge!!

WAIT! Do You Feel Like Romance isn’t in the Cards for your Relationship Right Now? THEN YOU NEED TO READ THIS:

There are a lot of reasons why relationships wither or fail altogether, and it all starts with CHANGE. It could be a career change, family health issues, financial difficulties, unemployment or simply feeling like you’ve changed but your partner hasn’t, that your partner just doesn’t ‘get you‘ anymore. It could be any of the million different struggles couples face these days and there’s almost never anything you can do to prevent change. And that’s just it – you don’t need to fight change itself anyways.

The way back starts with a CHANGE – and the 31-Day Romance Challenge could be just the thing to get you two back on the same page. It may not solve the problems, but it could be just what you need to remind you why you want to solve them.

And, Once You’re “There”, Consider a “Reset” with the Five-Year Marriage®

The good news is that you and your partner CAN LEARN how to solve problems and adjust to life’s changes together! I explain, step by step, how to do exactly that in my book The Five-Year Marriage® – grab a copy from Amazon to learn how, or if you prefer a more guided approach, I’m offering the Beginners Guide to Your Brilliant Bad-Ass Marriage in the fall. You can also check out the 30-Day Relationship Reset Class that is currently live on Thinkific.

Positive Change Starts with a Single Step in the Right Direction

Check out the 31-Day Romance Challenge. Download it now and have a look through the various fun tasks and gestures you can do RIGHT now to take a step in a positive direction with your relationship.

You’re not Stuck, You CAN Make a Change!

I wholeheartedly believe that, and it’s my life’s passion to help you along your journey to Victory!

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The Five-Year Marriage®: Taking Responsibility For Yourself

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Young Engaged Couples Find Valuable Marriage Advice In The Five-Year Marriage® 

Are you looking for marriage advice before you make one of the biggest commitments of your life? Do you find yourself wondering if marriage can really last forever? Consider reading The Five-Year Marriage: Shifting the Marriage ParadigmI’m Annmarie Kelly and I too was unsure about the “forever” part of traditional marriage. The solution that my spouse and I developed is The Five-Year Marriage®. Engaged couples can read The Five-Year Marriage: Shifting the Marriage Paradigm and learn about how they can choose to take their married life five years at a time. 

The Five-Year Marriage® Requires Effort And Commitment From Both Partners 

The Five-Year Marriage® is not a type of agreement for those who aren’t prepared to work together as a couple and to prioritize their union. Working to make sure your union works also means working on yourself. One of the qualities that are important for any potential five-year marriage partner to have is personal responsibility. 

When looking for a potential five-year partner, ask yourself – do they take responsibility for what’s happened in their life? Or, do they instead blame outward forces when things don’t go their way? Sure, everyone has bad days now and then. Occasionally, things happen that are out of your control. However, if someone consistently fails to take responsibility for the things happening in their life and makes no effort to plan better for the future, that’s a problem. This is a pattern they will bring into any union they have. 

How can you recognize personal responsibility in not only your partner but yourself as well? How can a lack of personal responsibility affect your marriage? Couples will learn about these factors and more when they read The Five-Year Marriage: Shifting the Marriage Paradigm

The Five-Year Marriage® Offers The Best Advice For Engaged And Married Couples 

I’m Annmarie Kelly. Over my career as an author, empowerment speaker, radio host, and victory strategist, I’ve had the pleasure of being able to help empower many women. Now, I’m offering much-needed advice to singles, engaged, and married couples who are looking for an alternative to traditional marriage. If you want to learn more about how The Five-Year Marriage® can offer you the advice you and your partner have been looking for, click through to read more about The Five-Year Marriage® or contact me today

The Five-Year Marriage®: Is Your Partner Dependable?

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Looking For Marriage Advice Before The Big Day? 

The Five-Year Marriage: Shifting the Marriage Paradigm offers young engaged couples advice on marriage that differs greatly from the ideas of traditional marriage. When you read The Five-Year Marriage: Shifting the Marriage Paradigmyou’ll find how you and your partner could choose to take your marriage just five years at a time. I’m Annmarie Kelly and I, like many young women and engage couples today, was looking for a different approach to marriage when my spouse originally proposed to me. In The Five-Year Marriage: Shifting the Marriage Paradigm, I tell couples about the plan for marriage that has worked for my spouse and me for the past 30+ years. 

Is Your Partner Dependable? 

One thing you should ask yourself when seeking out a potential five-year partner is – are they dependable? Dependability, on both a physical and emotional level, is a key factor in who could make for a good five-year partner.  

On a physical level, young couples should be able to rely on one another for financial stability, for staying on top of household chores, for picking up groceries, etc. Both partners should be prepared to do the work that is necessary to maintain everyday life. On an emotional level, dependability is about being there for your partner. Couples should also have a sense of security about how their other half feels and thinks about them. If your partner leaves you questioning their feelings and level of commitment, then a serious commitment such as The Five-Year Marriage® likely isn’t going to work. 

What are some signs that your partner isn’t dependable? How can you know if you, yourself, offer the dependability your partner needs? Couples can read about this and more in The Five-Year Marriage: Shifting the Marriage Paradigm

The Five-Year Marriage® Offers The Best Advice For Engaged And Married Couples 

I’m Annmarie Kelly. Over my career as an author, empowerment speaker, radio host, and victory strategist, I’ve had the pleasure of being able to help empower many women. Now, I’m offering much-needed advice to singles, engaged, and married couples who are looking for an alternative to traditional marriage. If you want to learn more about how The Five-Year Marriage® can offer you the advice you and your partner have been looking for, click through to read more about The Five-Year Marriage® or contact me today

The Five-Year Marriage®: Will My Partner Always Agree With Me?

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The Five-Year Marriage® Offers Unique Marriage Advice For Engaged Couples 

Even engaged couples who are certain they want to be together may not be so certain about the traditional approach to marriage. After all, forever is a long time, especially if you’re engaged at a young age. Can you really see yourself feeling and thinking the same ways in a decade? How about two or three decades, or even more? Engaged couples who are looking for an alternative to traditional marriage should read The Five-Year Marriage: Shifting the Marriage ParadigmI’m Annmarie Kelly, author of The Five-Year Marriage: Shifting the Marriage Paradigm and engaged couples, newly married couples, as well as single women and men interested in a new approach to marriage will find life-changing marriage advice in my book. 

Looking For Your Five-Year Partner: Should A Potential Partner Always Agree With You? 

When you’re searching for a partner for your Five-Year Marriage®, even though it isn’t a “forever” commitment, you want to be sure that you and your partner are compatible. After all, although the commitment isn’t forever, The Five-Year Marriage® still requires both partners to work together. Does that mean your partner should always agree with you? Of course not. After all, there’s likely no two people on the planet who agree all the time on everything. Additionally, sometimes people find themselves attracted to someone who is quite different from them. 

Engaged Couples Should Look For Chemistry And Support From One Another 

What’s more important than agreeing with your partner on every little thing is for the two of you to have emotional chemistry and to support one another. Do your values align? Do your differences complement each other? Can you turn to your partner when things aren’t going well, knowing that will have their support? These are some of the things that are crucial to look for in a potential five-year partner. Couples, or single people interesting in looking for their five-year partner, can learn more about what to look for in a partner in The Five-Year Marriage: Shifting the Marriage Paradigm

The Five-Year Marriage® Offers The Best Advice For Engaged And Married Couples 

I’m Annmarie Kelly. Over my career as an author, empowerment speaker, radio host, and victory strategist, I’ve had the pleasure of being able to help empower many women. Now, I’m offering much-needed advice to singles, engaged, and married couples who are looking for an alternative to traditional marriage. If you want to learn more about how The Five-Year Marriage® can offer you the advice you and your partner have been looking for, click through to read more about The Five-Year Marriage® or contact me today

Best Marriage Advice He Ever Got

When Ronald Roache got married, his new father-in-law gave him and his new bride, Yoshiko, some marriage advice. “Marriage is a business,” he told them. “part love and part business. You can’t go into the store and say, ‘I love my husband, now give me groceries.’”

At the time, Ronald and Yoshiko did what most young couples would do, they didn’t pay a lot of attention. However, it didn’t take long to find the truth in the older man’s words. Today, sixty-four years later, he says was the best piece of relationship advice he ever got.

Like most couples, when the two started out, they loved each other. Though they were mixed race (he’s black and she’s Asian), they presumed love would somehow conquer all. It wasn’t that easy.

In addition to making all the usual adjustments and decisions about housing, children, budgets, etc, their union caused its own problems. Back in the 1950’s, mixed-race marriages were way less accepted than today (if at all – and, in some places, were illegal). So the couple faced lots of social challenges right from the start. Living their life together as a “part love, part business” partnership made the difference.

Can Lovers Be Partners?

Most couples getting married today could use the same advice. Like  Ronald and Yoshiko, they marry because they love each other. However, as soon as the ring is on her finger, the task of figuring out what their soon-to-be partnership means gets back-burnered. Instead, hours and hours are spent over many months planning the wedding – an event that’s over in a day. Little time is spent planning the marriage – which, on their wedding day, the couple vow will last a lifetime.

The thing is, once the party is over and the wedding dress is packed away, real life happens. Bills come due, jobs change, children are born, houses are bought, mortgages need to be paid, cars break down, someone gets sick – all normal life changes. Normal, but they create stress and tension in a relationship. Then, if it’s normal, how do you manage those normal stresses – and still keep the love alive?

That’s what Ronald’s father-in-law was talking about in his simple but powerful advice. He knew how hard marriage is in the best circumstances. He also knew, without the business side in place, keeping the love burning when there are piles of loveless crap heaped on top of it – that’s an almost-impossible dream.

Creating and managing a good partnership is key to dealing with the “stuff” of life, love, and marriage. That’s what makes it the cornerstone of The Five-Year Marriage®.

Is it Really Love?

When people first learn about the Five-Year Marriage®, a common reaction is “it seems more like business than love.” Not true.

In the first place, why would you be thinking about marriage without love? Even in platonic marriages, where there’s no romance or sex involved, the partners have some kind of love for each other. So the love part is a given.

Next, ask anyone who is divorced about the love. When a marriage ends, even when it ends amicably, all that love is overshadowed by the business of who gets what. Many divorced men and women have admitted that, if they had worked together in their marriage the way they worked to get divorced, they might still be married. In fact, studies show that 6% of couples get back together and, when they do, 72% of the remarriages work. That’s likely because the couple learned (1) that love isn’t enough and (2) there’s value to being partners. Partners articulate their shared values and goals, talk about problems and work out solutions, make written agreements, share responsibilities equitably, and get outside help when they need it.

For most couples, the Five-Year Marriage® model has them doing more business upfront, with regular check-ins, and periodic (five-year) resets. That work doesn’t only build the partnership, it also fosters more trust, respect, and emotional safety – all the stuff real love is.

Marriage Tips for a Healthy Marriage with Partnership

I’m Annmarie Kelly. Over my career as an author, empowerment speaker, radio host, and victory strategist, I’ve had the pleasure of being able to help empower many women to live their best life. Now, I’m offering much-needed advice to singles, engaged, and married couples who are looking for an alternative to traditional marriage – help and tips that empower both partners to live their best marriage..and best life together. If you want to learn more about how The Five-Year Marriage® can offer you the advice you and your partner have been looking for, click through to read more about The Five-Year Marriage® or contact me today.

The Five-Year Marriage®, Your Partner, And Chemistry

The Five-Year Marriage® Offers Couples Fresh Marriage Advice 

The Five-Year Marriage: Shifting the Marriage Paradigm offers couples who are considering a more serious commitment an alternative to traditional marriage. The Five-Year Marriage can shift your perspective about marriage, help you think beyond the wedding day, and consider the importance of finding a compatible partner. I’m Annmarie Kelly, author of The Five-Year Marriage. My husband and I have built a life together for 30+ years, taking each of our marriages only five years at a time. Now, you can too. 

The Importance Of Chemistry In A Relationship 

All couples have heard before that in order to have a successful relationship there has to be some level of chemistry between both partners. What exactly is chemistry, through? Why is it important to a long-term relationship? 

Most commonly, couples think of two kinds of chemistry that come with relationships. there’s romantic chemistry and sexual chemistry. Romantic chemistry is what leads to the “butterflies in the stomach” feeling that many find so thrilling at the beginning of a relationship. Sexual chemistry, of course, is what leads couples to feel that draw of magnetism and “heat” for one another. While both of these forms of chemistry are important in a relationship, neither are the attraction, or chemistry, that is most important. After all, both of these feelings can fade with time. You simply can’t build a lasting relationship on something so temporary. 

Find A Partner You Have Emotional Chemistry With 

Emotional chemistry is a powerful feeling. It’s a sensation that is hard to put in definite terms. When you have good emotional chemistry with someone, you “just click.” You feel like you’re on the same wavelength. This attraction and connection is essential for a Five-Year Partner. Learn more about finding emotional chemistry in The Five-Year Marriage. 

The Five-Year Marriage® Offers The Best Advice For Engaged And Married Couples 

I’m Annmarie Kelly. Over my career as an author, empowerment speaker, radio host, and victory strategist, I’ve had the pleasure of being able to help and empower many women. Now, I’m offering much-needed advice to engaged and married couples who are looking for an alternative to traditional marriage. If you want to learn more about how The Five-Year Marriage can offer you the advice you and your partner have been looking for, click through to read more about The Five-Year Marriage® or contact me today

The Five-Year Marriage®: Finding The Right Partner

The Five-Year Marriage® Gives Engaged Couples Advice On How To Plan For Marriage 

If you’re making a long-term commitment to your partner, shouldn’t planning the marriage be more important than planning the wedding day? I’m Annmarie Kelly, and I encourage all couples considering marriage to read The Five-Year Marriage: Shifting the Marriage ParadigmThe Five-Year Marriage helps couples learn how to plan for marriage together.  

How Can You Plan For Marriage? 

Although traditional marriage requires a commitment of “til death do us part,” we all know that that promise is no guarantee of success in marriage. After all, about half of marriages in the US end in divorce. The Five-Year Marriage isn’t guaranteed to make your marriage a sure thing, either. In fact, the very premise depends on couples being willing to take the chance that after five years their commitment to one another might be over. What The Five-Year Marriage® can do for you is encourage couples to prioritize their commitment and really think ahead in their marriage. 

It Starts With Finding The Right Partner 

Any successful partnership depends first on finding the right partner. When you want to walk the path of The Five-Year Marriage, you have to ask yourself – what kind of person would want a Five-Year Marriage? Or, rather, what kind of person wouldn’t want a Five-Year Marriage? By starting with that question, couples will be able to figure out if they are a good match for each other in a Five-Year Marriage. 

The Five-Year Marriage® Offers The Best Advice For Engaged And Married Couples 

I’m Annmarie Kelly. Over my career as an author, empowerment speaker, radio host, and victory strategist, I’ve had the pleasure of being able to help and empower many women. Now, I’m offering much-needed advice to engaged and married couples who are looking for an alternative to traditional marriage. If you want to learn more about how The Five-Year Marriage can offer you the advice you and your partner have been looking for, click through to read more about The Five-Year Marriage or contact me today

The Five-Year Marriage®: Planning Beyond The Wedding Day

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Looking For Relationship Advice Before Marriage? 

It is undeniable that the expectation to marry influences many couples to go through with a life-long commitment without putting real thought and consideration into what lies beyond the wedding day. The Five-Year Marriage: Shifting the Marriage Paradigm encourages couples to think beyond wedding planning to marriage planning. My name is Annmarie Kelly, and in The Five-Year Marriage I offer young couples the best relationship advice I know. 

Wedding Planning Vs. Marriage Planning 

Intense and extremely thought-out wedding planning is an aspect of marriage culture that couples are taught to expect. Whether you hire a professional or try to take on the wedding planning yourself, there are experts, advice, and self-help tips aplenty to be found for how to successfully plan a wedding. 

Why do we put so much effort into planning an event that will only last a day? Why don’t we put that same effort, if not more, into planning for the marriage that is meant to last “’til death do us part”? Partially, perhaps, it is because there are no “marriage planners” in the way that there are “wedding planners”. 

The Five-Year Marriage® Can Help You Become Your Marriage Planner 

The Five-Year Marriage encourages couples to think outside of the box. This plan advises couples to consider more than one day – it asks them to seriously consider what they expect the next five years together to look like, and if both parties are ready to do the work to hold true to their agreed-upon marriage plan. 

The Five-Year Marriage® Offers The Best Advice For Engaged And Married Couples 

I’m Annmarie Kelly. Over my career as an author, empowerment speaker, radio host, and victory strategist, I’ve had the pleasure of being able to help and empower many women. Now, I’m offering much-needed advice to engaged and married couples who are looking for an alternative to traditional marriage. If you want to learn more about how The Five-Year Marriage can offer you the advice you and your partner have been looking for, click through to read more about The Five-Year Marriage or contact me today

The Five-Year Marriage: Advice For Couples

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The Five-Year Marriage Provides Great Relationship Advice 

So many people want to achieve their happily ever after through marriage, and yet many people also acknowledge that marriages often fail. Couples who are wary of the topic of marriage but who are interested in committing to one another can find an alternative to traditional marriage The Five-Year Marriage: Shifting the Marriage ParadigmI’m Annmarie Kelly, and The Five-Year Marriage is the plan by which my husband and I have shared the past 30+, taking it only 5 years at a time. 

The Five-Year Marriage: Advice For Couples 

Should you choose to enter a five-year marriage with your partner, you will work together to determine the terms of your five-year marriage. You will form an agreement that you will assess at the end of your five-year term and then determine, as a pair, if you’re ready to continue with another five-year marriage. Traditional marriages are often built on assumptions past the marriage day. You promised ‘forever,’ so that’s the plan that married couples feel they have to stick to regardless of changes in their lives. The five-year marriage, on the other hand, encourages couples to acknowledge change, to make room for it in their relationship, and to not take each other for granted. 

In addition to offering an alternative option for marriage, The Five-Year Marriage offers great advice for couples. Even couples who aren’t entirely sure if a five-year marriage plan is for them can benefit from a new perspective on relationships and commitment. Get your copy of The Five-Year Marriage today for relationship advice for you and your partner. 

The Five-Year Marriage Offers The Best Advice For Engaged And Married Couples 

I’m Annmarie Kelly. Over my career as an author, empowerment speaker, radio host, and victory strategist, I’ve had the pleasure of being able to help and empower many women. Now, I’m offering much-needed advice to engaged and married couples who are looking for an alternative to traditional marriage. If you want to learn more about how The Five-Year Marriage can offer you the advice you and your partner have been looking for, click through to read more about The Five-Year Marriage or contact me today

The Five-Year Marriage: Making Your Marriage A Priority

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The Five-Year Marriage Helps Engaged Couples Learn To Prioritize Their Marriage 

Many people today have mixed opinions about marriage. Many are aware of the high divorce rates in our country and rightfully worry that marriages won’t last. At the same time, many of those people also want to get married. Couples who are considering marriage have to ask themselves – is marriage worth it? How can we make our marriage different? How can our marriage last? I’m Annemarie Kelly, and in my book The Five-Year Marriage: Shifting the Marriage ParadigmI offer an alternative take on marriage. The Five-Year Marriage is the plan my husband and I have followed for our 30+ years together, and it can work for you too. 

What Is A Five-Year Marriage? 

In its simplest terms, a five-year marriage is just what it says on the tin. It’s marriage wherein you and your partner commit not ‘til death do you part, but just for a length of five years. Below that surface level, though, many couples find that the five-year marriage offers them an amount of control and freedom in their marriage that makes for a longer-lasting, more committed relationship than they might have accomplished through traditional marriage.  

Learn To Make Your Marriage A Priority 

The five-year marriage commitment forces married couples to rely on working together through their marriage rather than assuming it will work out on its own. Together, you and your partner draft a contract for your five-year marriage. You decide what your goals are, how you will accomplish those goals, and what expectations you both have for your five-year marriage. You have to commit to working together and prioritizing your marriage in your daily lives. Learn more about how this arrangement could work for you when you read The Five-Year Marriage

The Five-Year Marriage Offers The Best Advice For Engaged And Married Couples 

I’m Annmarie Kelly. Over my career as an author, empowerment speaker, radio host, and victory strategist, I’ve had the pleasure of being able to help and empower many women. Now, I’m offering much-needed advice to engaged and married couples who are looking for an alternative to traditional marriage. If you want to learn more about how The Five-Year Marriage can offer you the advice you and your partner have been looking for, click through to read more about The Five-Year Marriage or contact me today