Exciting News! 30 Day Relationship Reset has Launched!

Happy Thursday Everyone!

I trust you’re well and surviving this crazy social distancing summer. I’m surviving and have been busy. Now I’m SUPER excited to announce my newest program. But first, let me explain…

Back in March we all got hit with Covid confinement. A few weeks into the lockdown, calls with both my clients and girlfriends started having a similar sound – everyone was suddenly with their loved ones 24/7 – only not everyone was feeling so loving. The pandemic news was stressful enough on its own, but for many couples – and I mostly talked to the women – lockdwon brought to light many dysfunctional issues in their relationships.

At the same time, I started sensing that long-time married couples, ane even some newlyweds, were intimidated by the marriage model presented in my ground-breaking and game-changer book, The Five-Year Marriage: Shifting the Marriage Paradigm. The women I’ve talked to LOVE the idea of renegotiating their agreements and getting a fresh start. However, like many life-changing ideas, it was also daunting. I’d hear them say things like, “This makes so much sense, I wish I’d had this forty years ago. Now I think it’s too late for us.”


I know from experience that within The Five-Year Marriage® concept there are extremely effective and valuable tools that ANY relationship can benefit from and use – ones I’ve been using for over 30 years through my 7 marriages with Joseph. And I know they work!

So, during lockdown, I decided to boil down the best parts of The Five-Year Marriage® – the ones that make the most sense for established couples. Then I arranged them into a manageable and highly effective format that couples can use to help get their relationships back on the right track, right now.

And so, The 30-Day Relationship Reset was born! 

This online program is a once-a-week “class” that walks you through the process of resetting your relationship to reflect what’s going on in your marriage/relationship now. And it’s LIVE online now! You can check it out by clicking here.

It’s a once-a-week program, delivered to your inbox. Each week includes:

  • A video explanation of the week’s plan – what to do and why it’s important for you. Most of the videos are relatively short – about 15 minutes.
  • Downloadable worksheets to guide your thought process – there are even a couple scripts to guide you and your sweetie through specific conversations, including the Family Meeting
  • Step-by-step instructions for using the worksheets
  • Additional tips & resources for understanding a bigger picture related to that week’s topic
AND, because everyone can use a little support and affirmation along the way, I also include:
  • A private Facebook group just for class members
  • Bi-monthly Q&A calls to provide detailed answers and research to help you problem-solve what’s happening on your unique journey. You’ll have access to these calls for 3 months – 6 calls ( just in case your reset takes longer than 30 days!)
  • Audio recordings of the Q&A calls

If you want to get your relationship back on track…
If you want to feel like you and your partner have each other’s back…
If you want to re-ignite the fun and intimate connection you once enjoyed with your partner…

And as a thank you for being a loyal Five-Year Marriage follower, I’m offering you a special discount! $50 off the regular class price! Just use code “love4all” during checkout. Register here.


You’ll also get a FREE Kindle copy of my book, The Five-Year Marriage: Shifting the Marriage Paradigm!

No matter how long you’ve been married, or living together, or simply dating, your relationship will benefit from this class!

I know it – in fact, I guarantee it! If, two weeks after I send your first 30-day Relationship Reset module, you aren’t satisfied with the program, I’ll give you your money back.

I’m Annmarie Kelly, award-winning author and speaker. I’m also the architect of the Five-Year Marriage® and the Godmother of Modern Marriage. I know how these past months have challenged you – body, mind, and soul. Me too! They’ve challenged all of us! That’s why I’m so incredibly excited to share this program with you, to help you and your sweetie refresh and reset – maybe even reverse course – so you can get back on track…together.

It’s not too late. You really can do this!

I’m looking forward to connecting with you during your remarkable 30-day Relationship Reset!


Silver Linings

OK, it’s been three months and I’m officially done with this lockdown. You too?

BUT two weeks ago, things got really bad….I knew Joseph and I were down the rabbit hole when we got so bored with each other that we cleaned out the garage. It got worse. Last Sunday we drove to Strasburg (in Lancaster County) and wove in and out of the buggy traffic of Amish church-goers just to get an ice cream cone. A few nights ago we even started sorting through old pictures. Yikes!

However, it hasn’t all been boring. To jazz things up a bit, Joseph had hernia surgery. Covid put a whole new spin on “curbside pickup” at the hospital. Btw: we were both tested for Covid and, if you haven’t done it yet, that swab up the nose thing is wicked!

Looking on the bright side of a difficult midlife situation

But, you know, I started thinking about something last week. Joseph sent his clients an update email and also told them about his surgery. One of the clients replied almost joyfully. “I’m so glad you’re doing that now, when we can’t get in to see you anyway. You’ll be fresh and healthy when you do open. It’s a silver lining.”

Hmmmm….could there be a silver lining to lockdown? I started poking around in conversation and FB, and I heard things like…

  • “We’re getting to eat dinner all together as a family, and we talk.”
  • “My kids have discovered family game night, and we play and laugh together.”
  • “He’s been cooking – not just grilling – actually cooking! I like it.”
  • “We’ve spent more time alone together than we have in years, and it’s been nice.”
  • “I kind of like not having to be someplace all the time.”
  • “I learned to play cards with my friends on zoom.”

So I looked around my life for silver linings…

  • I got to have hours-long phone calls with my long-distance girlfriends – something we almost never have time to do.
  • Because we’re on the same time schedule together, Joseph and I are enjoying mid-week happy hours on our deck
  • After cleaning out the garage and tossing a ton of stuff, we agreed to sell the two bikes we haven’t used in 10 years. They sold in less than an hour on FB Marketplace.
  • Joseph got time to reread my book, The Five-Year Marriage: Shifting the Marriage Paradigm. It was the first time since pre-publication. He’s been giving me compliments like “You wrote a really good book” and “this is easy-to-read.” The funniest, however, was the day he quoted me…to me!

How about you? What silver linings have you discovered during this difficult time? Will you make them part of you post-covid playbook?

The country is starting to open up, so this is a good time to create your personal “silver linings playbook” – so you don’t forget to do the good stuff when life gets busy again.

And please share those silver linings with me and our Sister Victory Chicks in the private Victory Chicks Community

With love and in victory,


Something new…There’s only so much binge-watching anyone can do. So, in my off-binge time – and while I can’t be out doing speaking or workshops, I took a course to learn how to get better at doing online webinars. As a result, I developed two new online programs: Love After Lockdown – for couples who want to reset their relationship (coming in July) – with a FREE WEBINAR on July 7 – and The New Marriage for Smart Women, starting in September.

You can sign up for the FREE WEBINAR now: Love After Lockdown Registration 

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You thought your marriage would be different, better. But, more and more, it’s looking like your mother’s marriage. While that might have been good for her and her generation, it’s not what you want.

The truth is this: in today’s fast-paced and constantly changing world, couples are faced with more and greater relationship challenges than any other generation.

The conventional commitment of “until death do you part” is unrealistic in a world where technology and random events seem to test even the steadiest of relationships.

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